Being Friends With The Ex

The end of the relationship - the last two months of it anyway, had been pretty shitty.  As in, we never talked and it was starting to seem pointless… since it was long distance especially. Initially, when I found out that she cheated.  I was a actually partly happy about it.  It gave me an easy out [...]

Why I Took The Notches Page Down

I took the notches and flags pages down, because I don’t really care about either anymore.  Notches and flags and things like that are only meaningful when they’re a part of short-term competition. But, in the grand scheme of life, what do they really mean? Is it worth it to chase or aspire for some [...]

I’ve Decided To Quit Drinking

Even though I’m quitting drinking on the heels of a break-up, I’m not quitting because of the break-up.  I actually have been considering quitting drinking for some time now, but with the end-of-the-semester, spring break, and St. Paddy’s leering…. it made more sense to enjoy all of that and go out with a bang. Which [...]

A Year And A Half In

So, I’m officially a year and a half in game. I’ve definitely seen some improvements, but honestly, I still have my struggles. Avoidance weasel still kicks in at times…. and I miss out on approaches. I keep losing girls/soft-targets after the initial number/Facebook close…. most for no apparent reason at all.   However, I am in a [...]

The Most Expensive Part of Game

I was on Roosh’s forum the other day and noticed a post by G Manifesto, titled, Getter Older in The Game, What you have to look forward to.  It was definitely an interesting read…. and the one point that really stuck out to me was this: When I was young: I lost a ton of girl [...]

Moving Out Of This City

I don’t know what happened…. for the past year or so I had convinced myself that accounting was the way to go. I enrolled in a few classes since I wasn’t an accounting major in undergrad and I was planning on getting an internship in accounting and applying for a Master’s in Accounting program… I [...]

My First OkCupid Date Experience

On a Tuesday night, I had a date with Ghetto Club, we went out to an amateur comedy hour.  I was actually nice and bought the drinks… and the hookah.  Then, she reciprocated by buying a round of shots.  I liked that because I didn’t expect it.  Also, I think she did it on purpose, [...]

My Game Sucks In My Hometown

There once was a time…when I was in undergrad… That I would come home for the weekend all of the time.  Not to see family, but for business trips, a lot of times, I’d come to my hometown and not even see my family. But, I’d stay busy. Everytime I came down for the weekend, [...]

I Need To Learn How To DHV Better

When I think DHV, I think of it as almost a subtle way of bragging, but with out really bragging. Jimmy, Krauser, Tony T all gave me a lot of good examples of this. Plenty, I need to work on. I actually think DHVing is one of the weakest points of  my attraction game right [...]

Project [My City]: The Mansion Is Coming Soon

Everything comes full circle, it seems. Here’s my story, quickly summed up: I had heard about PUA’s before, seen Mystery’s The Pickup Artist TV Show, etc Thought it was interesting, but more for losers and virgins who couldn’t get laid.  I had a girlfriend. Later, I’d have another girlfriend. At some point, I stumbled across [...]