Being Friends With The Ex

The end of the relationship - the last two months of it anyway, had been pretty shitty.  As in, we never talked and it was starting to seem pointless… since it was long distance especially. Initially, when I found out that she cheated.  I was a actually partly happy about it.  It gave me an easy out [...]

Relationship Game: From A Guy Who Just Failed At It

Yes, my year-long fling with GC has now ended.  I am saddened by it, no lie. At some point, she grew into my favorite woman I ever dated – out of all of the girls I’d ever met, dated, talked to, etc.  This should really come at no surprise, since I stayed with her for [...]

The Break-Up (Part 2)

Continued from part 1. So, Saturday night, St. Paddy’s Day….. GC got drunk as fuck on green beer and Irish Car Bombs.  We had to leave the club we were at early and she wound up throwing up in my homeboy’s car.  I got my boy to drive us back to my car, so I [...]

The Break-Up (Part 1)

Double-shot of whiskey on the rocks, splash of water…. I’m going to need it writing this post… as I gaze out of the airplane’s window… …………………………………………. So, a few commenters have asked about GC… “what happened with you and GC?” Well… we stayed together.  We did the long distance thing. And, it was fine at [...]

Monogamy, Purity, Marriage and Relationships

The expected norm in Western society is some type of monogamous, forever and ever marriage situation that rarely works.  50% of the time it ends in divorce.  Any idea on how many of the half that do succeed without getting divorced actually stay monogamous? Yeah… I don’t know either. When I read Relationship Roulette and quoted 60 [...]

Why I Got Into A Relationship And Some Thoughts On LTR Game

Some of my readers may be wondering why I got into a relationship.  Or maybe if there’s any real point to a relationship. I got into a relationship because 1.) I want to work on my LTR game 2.) I enjoy having a girl around who I enjoy both fucking the shit out of her [...]