I know I’ve seen Roosh and other PUA bloggers say that if you call a girl and she doesn’t answer or respond that you should just delete her number and move on. Makes sense, I mean she didn’t even have the courtesy to return a phone call, just move on. Then, I saw Assanova’s post about being persistent and I thought about it.
Just deleting a chick’s number after the first attempt to contact her and no response may not be the best way to go. There could be a lot of reasons that she didn’t respond. Sure, one reason could be she’s not interested and she’s actually never going to fuck you. But, honestly, she still gave you her number in the first place – she was at least interested enough at that point in time to give you her number. She could be having second thoughts now, she doesn’t really know you, you could be a creeper, etc, or she could have just forgot to call you back, she could have been on the phone, she could have even meant to call you back and something came up and it slipped her mind. Who knows? Who cares?
And, in actually, if done right, girls do find persistence sexy. After reading that post by Assanova, I posed the question to several girls anonymously and usually got the same answer – “If I showed you interest initially, then be persistent”. That was basically the gist of it, some even went as far as to say that they found “persistence to be very attractive.
In actuality it’s not that hard to gauge a woman’s interest, we do it all the time, from the initial approach, to the date, all the way up to the bang, you know how interested she is. You will be able to tell, if you’re calling her and texting her and you’re not getting any responses – then chill out, don’t overdo persistence, but deleting her number after the first no response isn’t really the best way to go about it either, after all, some girls are going to make you put at least some effort in in order to get the pussy. Once you’ve already gotten the pussy, you shouldn’t ever have to do much work to get it again, so a little work for the first lay isn’t such a bad thing.
I also came across another good post on this subject from Dylan at They Hate The Game, he says that if a girl doesn’t respond to two consecutive attempts, then he waits 30 days before he contacts them again. I like his rule better than the previous number deletion one. Sure some chicks who give they’re number will never wind up fucking you, but sometimes you might be surprised at the ones who do come around? It’s worth the shot anyway….
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It’s good advice. It’s a toss up for me, but even if I don’t delete her, she always moves down to pump and dump quality. The way I see it, she’s lucky I even talked to her, if she’s rude enough to not return my text, she doesn’t deserve any better than being a receptacle for my semen. My Taiwanese flag was one of these.
Yeah, I pretty much agree completely. She definitely deserves pump and dump at that point.
The basic rule of sales is that it takes seven points of contact to make a sale. Any sales guru will say people that give up after a single contact are doomed to failure. In sales at least.
How about two reasonably quick calls, then delay the third and final one to the early afternoon of day 28. Not 30, 28. Monthly cycle and all that.
Nice. I like how you bring the cycle in to play. Good thinking, Athol.
Are you serious? You could be screwing yourself over with this one. If your game is caveman and you happen to be calling her every time she’s menstruating, then you’ll never get the sale. Keeping track of her cycle is good so you can adjust your nice:asshole ratio, but it doesn’t help you if you don’t know it.
She probably/possibly was ovulating when she gave the number out, therefore 28 days later she is probably/possibly ovulating again.
There’s no sure way to know if she was ovulating when she gave the number out of course. It just seems more likely. By the time you make the third call it’s kinda a long shot she has an interest anyway.
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